Over the years of working with clients as a psychotherapist and life coach, I have witnessed many people go through periods of time in which they felt everything was falling apart. Life is full of unexpected losses, changes, and transitions such as an illness, a job loss, a divorce, a cross-country move, a major financial setback, etc. However, there are those times in life in which multiple uncontrollable events may be happening all at once that push you to the edge of your ability to cope and keep you from wanting to get out of bed in the morning.
I’ve spoken to many people going through this and you can see the fear in their eyes, the stress in their bodies and the doubt in their minds that their life will ever get back on track and feel not only manageable, but fun and happy again. If you are experiencing any of this yourself right now, hold on, I can tell you it does get better. But, how you navigate this treacherous terrain will make a difference in how you come out the other side.
I know some of this from personal experience. A few years back I went through a period of time in which most everything that I was familiar with was stripped away in a dramatic and painful way that I had little control over.
I have been a participant this year in a program called Your Year of Miracles led by NY Times best-selling author Marci Shimoff and success expert Debra Poneman. The program has had some of the most notable inspirational teachers, thought leaders and authors as weekly guest speakers and we have been taught some of the best tools available for making life changes.
Part of my purpose as a transformational coach is to help my clients achieve success in their life. Since success is often about the fulfillment of one’s goals, I generally start by asking my clients what they would like to accomplish in our work together and how I may help them the most.
One of my favorite things to do on Sunday mornings is to watch Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday series in which she interviews some of the best authors, spiritual teachers and thought leaders of our time. It is always uplifting, inspiring, educational and truly food for your soul. Who doesn’t need more of that right now?
One of my favorite authors and life coaches is