We all want to create changes in our lives. I listen to people’s dreams and desires all week long. Some of them are very inspiring and other’s not so much. I’m always curious what makes one person really want to go for their dreams and another simply want to maintain the status quo with perhaps a little tweak.
There are so many factors that play into this such as family history, past traumas, previous disappointments, failures or successes, whether the person has ever been encouraged and supported before and perhaps even less tangible things like karma, soul contracts and one’s destiny.
But one thing I know for sure when it comes to creating change and fulfilling one’s dreams is that mindset is key. If you believe you can do something and make it non-negotiable, the universal forces appear to conspire on your behalf.
I am about to take on some big changes and when my mind wants to tell me I am crazy, my mantra is, “Failure is not an option.” That calms me right down and puts me in reality. My reality. Not the reality of friends and family who want to caution me or suggest I reconsider.
When we work on our mindset we optimize our best chances at success.
One of the ways that I choose a topic for a blog post each week is to look at my library of photos and choose a photo that I feel drawn to and let it inspire a thought for a blog. I know that may be a bit strange for anyone primarily left-brained, but it is how I let my inner guidance take the lead. Plus, I find it more fun than “thinking up” a topic. I also look for themes during the week in terms of what my clients tend to be talking about a lot or other topics in the media or news related to personal growth.
It seems like half the clients I spoke with last week told me how overwhelmed they are. When I asked what was going on I heard about sick friends dying, fear of job loss, relationship break-ups, divorce dramas and financial strain.
In last week’s blog I talked about three ways to reclaim your feminine power. This week, I want to expand upon that topic since I feel it is so important to the happiness and full expression of all women and to the healing of our masculine-dominant culture that has spun out-of-control and is in desperate need of balance, wholeness and integration.